![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() These people don’t like ‘dwelling’ which is a codeword for basically thinking about, discussing, or doing anything that might cause them to connect with their actions and realise that they have behaved in less than a favourable manner to the people they are involved with. With their assumptive, passive aggressive and outrageous attitude, they operate in a little bubble where they can run around doing and saying what they like and then bamboozle their way around your protests and requests to talk. The ‘reset’ button in relationships is where the user seems to believe they have an ability to reset the relationship to whatever point that they feel most comfortable with, which is effectively like erasing the past. If you’ve found yourself with someone who stonewalls your attempts to discuss what ‘went wrong’ or just any discussion that requires them to have some awareness, accountability and responsibility towards you, plus they also seem to have an almost scary ability to disconnect from their actions and your upset, you’re with someone who operates liberally with a ‘reset’ button. Welcome to the special world of people who make up the rules as they go along and bulldoze their way around your life with their terms. She says she’s missed me and that she still loves me but how can she expect me to just forget?” Anthony, 36, UK. If I so much as mention the problems which include her starting something with a guy at the office as well as a complex web of lies, it’s the silent treatment or accusing me of being a killjoy! I don’t know what to do…I want to believe that we can have a future. She just expects to swoop back into my life and pick up from where we left off. Recently a reader emailed me about his ex-girlfriend. Tags: assclowns, boundaries - personal electric fence, emotional unavailability, getting back together, passive aggression, should i give my relationship another try, The Reset Button ![]()
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